EXAMPLE: a doula had a first visit with a couple in a city apartment. She was concerned there was only a single bed & the couple did not appear to have a good relationship. They did not have a car and wanted the doula to drive them to hospital. The doula discovered later the couple did not live together and his support was questionable. The doula did not feel comfortable with the responsibility of driving them to hospital in her car and felt very uncomfortable in his presence.