The power that comes from intuition has gone for many pregnant woman. The gut instinct that is so profoundly tuned to what is happening for a pregnancy and baby. It has been lost, slowly eroded over time due to ‘other’s’ fears and inability to believe that what a pregnant woman knows about the health of her unborn baby, should be trusted. It is all very well to say trust your body, follow your body’s lead, trust your baby, because mostly that is the opposite of what a pregnant woman is hearing, seeing and reading about. These powerful suggestions prove time and time again to suppress and dampen a woman’s innate intelligence.
When women are relaying their traumatic birth experience in a hypnotherapy session, I hear over and over again women saying “I knew this wasn’t right, I just felt that my baby was actually O.K. and what they were telling me was not what was really happening, I had a gut feeling that I did not need this medical intervention…..” BUT I felt all my power was taken away, and in a split second, all decisions were out of my control. This common reporting is deeply disturbing.
One of the basic problems is a culture has developed that sends the message to women that you need medical help to have a baby. This culture says it is quite normal to choose a doctor and a hospital to give birth. Just think for a moment about that. What is a doctors skill? A: to diagnose and fix a medical problem. And many of them are very good at doing just that. What is a hospital for? A: to fix sick people who have disease or are injured, or need surgery. What needs fixing about pregnancy and birthing? A: nothing!
GETTING THE POWER BACK
True intelligence activates natural nurturing during pregnancy, birthing and bonding. All these capacities are deep within every woman and have been built up over millions of years. Women change when they become pregnant. They are acutely aware of their true intelligence and connection with their unborn baby. And then…… the onslaught of advice, classes, hospitals, doctors, midwives, books, media, movies and a society with a very flawed view of birthing hit her like a tornado, and is so overwhelming and confusing that it has become difficult, if not impossible for a pregnant woman to just connect with her true intelligence and trust herself and her choices. If we can just get the intellect out of the way, all of these natural processes unfold spontaneously and brilliantly and are expressed naturally because the baby opens up innate intelligences within the mother.
When you have a system that TEACHES women how to have a pregnancy, how to give birth, how to bond, how to breastfeed, and how to parent it is hugely disempowering. We must stop this intellectual interference in childbirth. When you teach these things the message is very clear to the pregnant woman – You do not know how to do any of this and you must follow my (the expert teacher!) instructions and I will show you how. This could not be more damaging.
At our Inside Birth® Educator Training you will learn to inspire women, deep within their inner mind, to get the ‘intellect’ out of the way to allow all their natural processes to unfold spontaneously. We don’t teach the ‘how to’!
At Inside Birth® we specialise in reconnecting the true intelligence in women, to believe and trust in their instinct or gut feeling because they are always right. Take advantage of early bird offer. I will show you how to set up a powerful business teaching Inside Birth® and reconnect women with their true intelligence.