AND WHY LANGUAGE MATTERS

too much information

If you Google ‘pregnancy’ there are many awful headings that pop up:  like ‘what are the symptoms of pregnancy’?

‘symptom’ definition – “a phenomenon that arises from and accompanies a particular disease or disorder and serves as an indication of it”

From the very beginning we are medicalising pregnancy.

Pregnancy is not a disease or a disorder.

The word ‘symptoms’ is common to us all.

If you have been unwell, hospitalised, seeing a doctor, receiving a diagnosis, friends will ask:  ‘what were your symptoms’

They want to know so they can check themselves.  They start worrying if they have any similar ‘symptoms’

The word ‘symptoms’ or ‘signs & symptoms of pregnancy’ immediately conjures up something medical.

This word is already registered in your unconscious mind as a medical alarm.  It is so familiar.

So already, before a woman acknowledges to herself she is pregnant, she begins to worry.

No wonder pregnant women are fearful.

Dear pregnant woman,

  • Stand tall
  • Be proud
  • Be conscious and aware of the amazing changes beginning in your mind, body and spirit
  • TRUST your intuitive self
  • TRUST in your ability to grow and connect with a beautiful new person

From your friends, family, social media connections, your work colleagues, your local community and your global community

5 SPECIAL JOYS UNIQUE TO PREGNANCY

  1. Expect to feel overwhelmed with joy
  2. Expect to feel a power deep within of pride at your new creation of a small human
  3. Expect to feel a different closeness to your partner. A vulnerability and love never before experienced
  4. Listen to your changing body and follow its lead (rest/sleep when needed, eat what feels right)
  5. Connection is key – talk to your new little soul who is relying on your love and protection for the next 40 weeks …and beyond
MOST IMPORTANTLY:  block out all negative noise and choose a Birth Right doula who will provide non-judgemental guidance, options, support and advocacy for you and your unborn baby.
https://birthright.com.au/doulas/find-a-birth-right-doula/

REALLY IMPORTANT:  ENJOY